Further, a strong parent-child connection actually makes parenting easier, since children who feel more connected to their parents are more inclined to listen, help and follow directions. Children who feel connected also are more willing to talk to their parents about problems with friends or in school. Here are 10 ways to deepen bonds between parents and children. Let your kids see your silly side. Older kids enjoy cards, chess, and computer games, while younger ones have fun playing any game with parents. Children feel powerful when they help. Children can also help by giving opinions. Asking a child which shoes look better with your dress lets them know you value their opinion. Of course, if you ask, be prepared to accept and live with the child’s choice. Children reach out for independence at a young age, and parents can help to foster those decision-making skills by being supportive and even looking the other way on occasion. After all, it really is OK if a child goes to daycare with a striped green shirt and pink plaid shorts.
